The design templates for Vox are too cutesy. I need a layout that is a little more hip-hop, a little more Harlem, a little more me.
I don't trust the "post only viewable to friends" thingie. It's like sending my private journal to my friend through the mail or something. I have to assume someone may read it.
Email and IM is probably just as (in)secure as private posting, but for some reason I feel comfy sharing all types of secrets through those meduims. And it's crazy - AIM actually has large privacy issues, yet to me it feels as safe as a face-to-face conversation.
But whatever. Thousands of people post privately on LiveJournal and MySpace. This is just my issue.
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